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Shygirl on Navigating Stardom, Love, and Her Roots

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Shygirl, born Blane Muise, approaches life and her career with the same level of preparation she applies to everyday emergencies. The 33-year-old recently spent her morning curating an online shopping list for a disaster preparedness kit, inspired by a news article she read on the topic. Describing herself as the type of person to be ready for anything, she noted that she is already equipped with items like water-purifying tablets. L eaving the important stuff to chance isn’t Shygirl’s style. Who was asleep in bed next to her. “I was like: babe, we’re sorted, she woke her boyfriend. And the singer, whose real name is Blane Muise, introduces herself as “Shy” and slides into the booth opposite me at an Italian trattoria, it’s a sticky September afternoon in east London. Shared a toilet stall with Arca and Richard E Grant. Of brash swagger, blunt humour and slippery feminine desire has found an exhilarating new form of expression, the 33-year-old’s particular mix of hard and soft.

Reflecting on her career path, the singer, rapper, and DJ burst into the club scene with her 2016 track, Want More. Over the following decade, she has transitioned from a cult underground artist to a prominent figure in the music industry. Her forthcoming second album, Swallow!, marks a departure from her previous work in hyperpop and electronic music. Instead, she explores a rock-focused sound reminiscent of William Orbit-era Madonna, centering themes of vulnerability, intimacy, and long-term commitment. Pulsating Want More in 2016, and in the decade since, the singer, rapper and DJ has applied the same rigour to her career as she has to her emergency prepping, going from cult underground artist to rising pop star, opening arenas for Beyoncé and Charli xcx, winning a Mobo award in 2024, and appearing in Madonna’s recent Confessions II – The Film, in which she, she first burst on to the club scene with the naughty. Moody guitars and anthemic, crashing drums, Swallow! is a different sound for an artist whose previous records have flirted with hyperpop, UK garage and electronica, with its dreamy.

The creative direction of the new album was deeply influenced by her relationship with actor George Smale. Shygirl, who previously found success with her debut album Nymph, recalled a sense of anticlimax after achieving her professional goals in 2022. It was during this period that she matched with Smale on the dating app Raya. After vetting his voice on the app, the couple met in London before she invited him to join her on an extended trip to Tokyo. She noted that their relationship has felt steady and grounded, a stark contrast to past experiences where she often lost her footing. I n December 2022, Shygirl was preparing to go on tour. But there’s always that anticlimactic feeling when you get what you wanted, her debut album Nymph had received rave reviews and she was finally earning enough money from music to rent her own place. “I felt good about the reception. Tossing her tangerine corkscrew curls. “Then I met George.”, now what?” she says. According to go on, I say, tell me the story. “It was on Raya,” she, Conspiratorially. She was hungover from a night out while browsing the members-only dating app. According to satisfied, she invited him over to watch one of her favourite films, Alien. “Then we got Thai takeout and hooked up,” she, Matter-of-factly. But they kept talking for almost two months, she was leaving for Australia later that week. When she decided to extend her trip and add a visit to Japan, “I was like: fuck it. She says, laughing – and she and actor George Smale have been together ever since. “We had 10 days there and one other date in London when I got back before saying, ‘I love you, she flew him out – “in economy”. She says, “I didn’t feel like I was all of a sudden so enamoured with someone that I didn’t know where my footing was.”, unlike previous relationships. As a millennial, Shygirl came of age when guitar-driven pop music was dominating the charts. “It was very prevalent in all the pop I grew up listening to: Keane, Madonna, random shit like the Rasmus,” she says. In the 2010s, when she was a teenager, musical discovery was serendipitous: “We had HMV, where you could just walk in and put the headphones on. Her dad, who is of Grenadian origin, worked for the UK government’s Welsh office and later as a club promoter in Notting Hill.

The process of recording Swallow! was organic and immediate. For the lead single, Lucky, she avoided writing down lyrics, choosing instead to record her raw feelings directly into the microphone. She described the track as an admission of her role as an active participant in the life choices that brought her to this point. Similarly, the ballad Real, written for her partner, allowed her to process the vulnerability of falling in love during their travels together. Love, she says, is “scary, exciting and big”. Like many of the tracks on Swallow!, Lucky[Hymn] is an indie song. “It had more of a classic tone to it because I felt like I was in a classic part of my life,” she says.

Shygirl’s journey is rooted in her background in south-east London, where she grew up as the eldest of three children. Her parents, who held various jobs—from public sector work to cleaning and school catering—instilled in her a strong work ethic. She views her upbringing as a lesson in self-reliance, noting that she never felt entitled to anything and learned that success requires proactive effort. This drive is reflected in her professional history, including the time in 2018 when she booked her own first show in Amsterdam before releasing her debut EP, Cruel Practice, and quit her job at a modelling agency. Meanwhile, “my mum used to work as a cleaner, a toilet attendant, a receptionist, a dinner lady,” she says. “She’s always had a job.

Achieving financial stability has been a significant milestone for the artist. Having purchased her own home this year, she expressed a desire to prove that her family’s sacrifices were worthwhile. She noted that her primary motivation has always been to elevate her life beyond her origins and provide assurance to her parents. Her recent experiences touring with Charli xcx and Troye Sivan, including a performance at Madison Square Garden, helped her see mainstream success as an attainable goal without compromising her artistic self-identity.

Despite her professional growth, Shygirl remains grounded by the reality of being a woman in the music industry, which she identifies as her greatest barrier. She maintains a supportive circle, noting that female artists in her field are actively trying to create opportunities for one another. She finds value in questioning the structures around her, as seen in the music video for her new project where she deliberately acknowledges the artifice of the environment, breaking the fourth wall to connect more authentically with her audience.

Ultimately, her music is an exploration of the choices she has made and the people she has chosen to keep close. She remains wary of idolizing others, preferring to see people as flawed individuals, yet she feels a sense of awe at her current circumstances. When asked about her outlook, she emphasized the importance of choosing her own path, asserting that she is consistently selecting the reality she wants to live in. That contentment and calm was a source of inspiration. “When I made Lucky, I sat in the room with the mic.